It was ‘well publicized’ that the first lady liked to shop and that the president also enjoyed choosing dresses and hats for his wife. She claimed no favorite color but did popularize redish. They dress just like this nearly any day. And now here is the question. Are you in costume for something? First. You always dress really like that, right? Skeptical follow up, disbelief that what looks like a n of work is a daily routine. Now pay attention please. No, they’re not in costume. Whenever Gretchen Fenston leaves her house, people always ask her similar two questions, usually in identical order. She says, as a young child I always wanted to be a ‘old fashioned girl’ for Halloween. Ok, and now one of the most important parts. To outsiders, it’s impossible to imagine how a person can so thoroughly evoke the past without looking like they’re in a costume, The effect is stunning and intimidating. Know what guys, I wanted to live in this romantic world of an earlier time, I’m pretty sure I lived in the real world.
Fenston was dressing like this-wearing vintage clothing from the 1920s through the 1940ssince she was a teenager in San Francisco in the early 1970s. By the way, the fashion archivist is part of a growing scene of vintage collectors who bring the past into the present in their daily dress, since moving to NY in 1980. I’ve never been in a vintage setting where I felt left out, Coursey says. Accordingly the experience of planning to see an old movie dressed in identical sorts of clothes you see onscreen is a satisfying one, as are the joyful smiles that spread across strangers’ faces when they see us out in force. We are looking at rare occurrences, though, and hardly enough to discourage staying in the scene. We create a bubble that exists alongside reality and get to see quite similar friendly faces nearly any time we step inside. Being included is a huge deal to me, before I met these people I always felt like an outsider. People are supportive of my gender bending.
Chew’s experience is similar, and even deeper.
It’s particularly vital for him since his family doesn’t support his interest in style, let alone his fluidity.
As long as it’s a lot a part of me, the tension was not worth it, It’s a shame. That’s only one time I feel comfortable being more daring in the way I dress. In the vintage and dance communities I feel like I can thrive, he says. Now let me tell you something. I’m better off being myself around people who understand me. I feel like in the we’re taught that if something looks good it’s not functional, or that if you’re paying really.
It’s that Therefore if there’s one common lament among everyone who wears vintage.
There’re no prerequisites, aside from an interest in old, beautiful things.
Gualdron and I came from the punk and indie scenes, neither of which are places you’d expect to find someone in a 75yearolddress, fenston has sewed since childhood and Coursey works Fashion Week almost any year, that aren’t surprising backgrounds for this hobby. As is the case with a bunch of us, chew works in a law firm and sometimes goes for jeans and a ‘T shirt’. It draws people gether from this sincere love for things people think are unimportant, Fenston says. Of course, dita von Teese was not the only one who looks great even when she’s grocery shopping. As soon as you start feeling this good about going outside for the day, it’s harder to give it up, that’s rare. Eventually, they embodied the persona so beautifully.
I looked down at my outfit and was so ashamed.
I felt so boring!
I was mystified, in awe of what they’ve been wearing, he remembers. He started wearing vintage after spotting Fenston from afar at a Jazz Age party in He’d recently fallen in love with Lindy Hop, the kind of swing dancing most vintage collectors know, and had gone to the party just to dance, voon Chew used to be among the dazzled. Consequently I saw Gretchen and Roddy. Then, he wore a Armani buttondown and jeans. Nonetheless, chew is now among the ‘bestdressed’ people, and the main one who effortlessly ‘genderbends’, in the overwhelmingly stylish circle of vintage collectors that thrives in NY, a constantly rotating cast of hobbyists whose closets end somewhere around the ‘mid1960s’, So in case not earlier. Notice, I found them as quickly as I could, since like Chew, only after I started wearing vintage, I actually never looked back, when I moved here from San Francisco. Now please pay attention. While sweeping dresses, and tailored suits, they flock to old movie theaters and big band concerts, a mass of hats.
It’s almost impossible to imagine he ever felt embarrassed.
Whenever looking for way more specific things as you discover gaps in your wardrobe, you pick up a dress here, a blouse there.
One day I looked at my closet and realized, Huh, By the way I guess it’s what I wear now, says Vanessa Gualdron, a photographer who’s been wearing vintage for about three years, I don’t really know how it happened. Besides, the cocktail dresses you liked before look it’s where I wound up, I didn’t do it on purpose. So it is a similar story among my friends. Essentially, even your PJs are as old as your mom. Suddenly, you’ve become a vintage person. It ain’t a bad weekend when you sit in as a hair model for @hisvintagetouch.
Ask most vintage collectors to show you the first piece they ever bought, though, and chances are they don’t own it anymore.
And you commit to what you are, says Michelle Coursey, a makeup artist whose interest in vintage bloomed when she met her nowhusband at New York’s Jazz Age Lawn Party six years ago, as you get older you make sure what you love.
It’s pretty impossible to stand out, in NYC especially, and in vintage I feel top-notch about myself -I take pride in having found a piece and wearing it. By the way, the trick to looking puttogether instead of tacky is applying quite similar guiding fundamentals of style people use today. We wear vintage being that we can’t seem to feel that ‘waycomfortable’, beautiful, even sexy in contemporary clothing. You learn quickly that just as long as things are vintage doesn’t mean they’re good or that they look good on you.
Vintage is what makes me the most comfortable, the most beautiful.
This savior mentality excuses broadening our wardrobes well into the hundreds of pieces, that can, cumulatively, cost thousands of dollars.
Even once you’ve figured out what looks good on you, your closet is never finished. Everything from the fabric to the construction is superior to anything you could buy now, and with every passing year since the birthdate of a piece, that item gets more expensive. While saving historical objects not simply from the ravages of age but also from the clutches of fashionistas who see a long skirt and feel compelled to cut half of it off, shopping becomes a kind of conservation. Because it’s always disappearing, vintage has an urgency to it, anyone who loves fashion feels this way. Gualdron laughs.
Even the many whitish guys in this community are quick to acknowledge that even they are glad not to live in earlier decades.
We can share this love of the style but be on identical page that living back therefore was awful in a bunch of ways.
Coursey recalls the mornings of an annual vintage retreat at a cabin in upstate NYC, where a dozen or so friends sat around the fireplace in our robes reading problems of Esquire and Harper’s from the 1930s. We couldn’t stop talking about the clothes being beautiful but the politics being so horrible, she says. People in this scene are very smart and wellinformed. Fact, outsiders often mistake this obsession with the aesthetics of the past for a desire to return to it. On p of this, when people call me a ‘old soul’ it makes me cringe. People ask if I was ‘born in the wrong era’ and no, definitely I wasn’t! Make sure you scratch suggestions about it in the comment form. I wouldn’t look for to live back consequently, It’s important to know that it’s just an outward façade.
My favorite thing about wearing these clothes is that doing so writes a brand new chapter in this otherwise sad history.
Gualdron sometimes wears them onstage playing bass for her hardcore band, Electro Insides, I wore them to work when I was an audio engineer.
I love the duality of me wearing vintage, says Gualdron. I’ll be decked out in a vintage outfit and listening to punk, and noone would ever guess it from the way I’m dressed, when I take the subway into work. This is the case. When these pieces were made, 60 years later, I’m buying their clothes with a debit card that has my name on the front, women couldn’t open their own bank accounts. As a result, I just don’t have an answer, she says. As progressive as they make some women feel, or as progressive as the politics appear to be, almost everyone in this scene is whitish, straight, and cisgender, lots of us know that there is very little we can’t do in these clothes.
I do notice it, and I’m sort of mentally prepared for it, I’m not thinking about it constantly.
Will still like more people to recognize that whiteness is the ‘statusquo’ and question why that is, She’s never been confronted with overt racism in the scene.
Especially since what we are celebrating comes from a cultural history that is no exclusively almost white. Known gualdron, who is Colombian and grew up in Queens, says her Latinx friends are always puzzled that event photos rarely include other people of color. Any time I walk into a party or an event, I look around and I’m a solitary one, or one of very few. With the lovely @minaloy at the beach party yesterday before the @boston.vintage lawn party. Normally, I was wearing a scarf on my hair making an attempt to protect my set. Loving these two unusual colored 20s bathing suits! It was raining part of the time but we made some interesting stuff from it! Men in this scene skew older, whereas the women start collecting in their teens, and it’s not uncommon for the former take advantage of the disparity.
Where we wind up with our own version of the professional mentorship gap, It’s also common for prominent men in the scene to focus their mentorship on younger men in skills like dressing, dancing, and photography.
Whether in their ne or their frequency, compliments can easily verge into uncomfortable territory, and the few times I’ve tried to address repeat offenders, I became the issue for taking the problem attempting to be nice.
Dressing well inspires an air of gentility, that creates a wonderfully sophisticated environment but also discourages breaking the spell with something like a complaint of inappropriate behavior. Subtle gender dynamics emerge, I’m almost sure I didn’t expect that, within three years, that’s all I’d be wearing, when I bought a dark green silk 1950s wiggle dress at a vintage shop in my sophomore year of college.
Whenever feeling p I ever have, somehow I’m here, 40 dresses later.
Despite liking dresses, Know what, I never wanted to look would make me appear even younger and smaller than I already did.
Until I started collecting vintage personal style eluded me. I liked patterns and textures but didn’t wear them well. They have been identical air of gentility that smooths over micro aggressions also suppresses factionalism, cattiness, and the occasional grudge. Most irritating are the comments about how small one’s own waist is, that serves not only as a compliment fish but a boast about squeezing into coveted pieces even a contemporary size 4 will have trouble zipping up. Normally, instead of agreeing to share the dress, they stopped speaking to each other, Once, Know what guys, I heard of a friend breakup over an ebay auction.
Less common, but worse, are asides to friends about someone else’s weight, masked as a comment that whatever they’re wearing doesn’t fit them very well, humblebrags about the size of one’s vintage collection flow freely., like any tight knit scene, there’s regular old drama. Understandably, not everyone wants to deal with it. Generally, when women’s presence in the workforce encouraged daywear to become sturdier and less restrictive, vintage can also be a problem to live in, particularly styles that predate the 1940s. Then, while shutting women of size out, finding things above a size 14 is difficult, and because of their scarcity those sizes are often more expensive. Notice, not everyone can collect this kind of true vintage, as many call it. While taking care of And so it’s a parttime job, as Coursey jokes, a constant stream of hems to fix, zippers to replace, and underarm tears to patch, albeit vintage is less expensive than modern clothing of very similar quality. Flashback to last year’s Viva.
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